From using ChatGPT for a heartfelt apology to leaving a group chat without warning, modern manners can be complicated.

But one question divided Kristen & Nige: if your meal arrives first, should you start eating or wait for everyone else?

Nige insisted he would let his steak go cold before eating in front of a date, although Kristen discovered that rule apparently doesn’t apply when they dine together.

Hear the full debate below and decide who’s right.